Ok I love Jordan, I really do. And I may profess this often on a facebook status, in picture comments and even in this blog. And its all true. Sometimes Im just filled with this intense feeling of wow hes amazing and in way I want to share it with the world. Just think anchorman style “Shout it on mountaintops, Im in love with Veronica Corningstone!” When people are in love it happens and cant be helped.
Some people may think that if you have to publicly claim your love for someone, its making up for a bad relationship. I believe this isnt true, in every case, because everyone wants to share their happy moments. Whenever you use to get an A, you use to run and tell your parents right? When that boy in class asked you for your number, you would tell your friends almost instantly right? Its human nature to want to share good times in your life and we do, often.
HOWEVER I truly believe there comes a point when you can take your public display of love far enough to infer to others that you honestly dont have a life. I am still me. Jordan is a part of my life, but not my life. If you read my blog you can see that I also love my friends, fashion, vloging(lol), my family etc… Although Jordan is a substantial part of my life, my life does not revolve around him.
I have a few examples in mind of the sort of people I’m talking about. You know these people.The ones who have nothing else to say, but LOVE LOVE LOVE (Insert name here). When it gets to that point you lose yourself and no one should do that to you. Everyone has to put themselves first or else you just become another brainwashed Hedi. If these people truly believe in what they say, I have to say they are in for some rough times. I cant stress enough how important it is to be an individual, because in the end you can only rely on yourself. Trust me I know. I know what its like to have someone leave you and take your life with them. You are left alone and with no hint of an idea of what to do next. In a way you have start all over and this is not easy in the slightest. Its sad to see these people define themselves by their relationships, especially when they are such interesting people to begin with.
